Sunday, October 30, 2011

Why I Don't Have A CL

At a Shabbos meal this week, a friend of mine asked about my Cleaning Lady situation. I actually found myself feeling somewhat embarrassed that I do not have a CL at all.

 99% of the time, I am the CL, the exception being when I return from an out-of-town trip to my parents, or when I come back from an out-of-town concert trip.

Now let me preface all this by saying that I was (partially) raised by the loving hands of a woman named Frida that worked for my parents for over 20 years. She is like a family member and all of us living out of town still call her regularly. She taught me so much about housekeeping;

Srub pots with ajax to keep them shiny,

Leave ironing till the end (cuz once you start you can't stop),

Line the bottom of the garbage can with paper towel to absorb leaks,

Leave extra plastic bags in the bathroom garbage cans so you can easily switch to a new one...

the list goes on and on (I am trying to remember much much more but I am love HER, not the actual CLEANING.)

She cared about us like we were her own children and flew in for a week for my brother's wedding this summer. I was more nervous about hosting her than my mother. I ironed the sheets, polished the silver and dusted the light fixtures in her honor. I also left a towel and chocolates on her (freshly pressed) duvet clover. Needless to say it was an honor to have her stay by me and I love her dearly. (She brought me a gorgeous crystal pitcher as a present. Toiveled. Need I say more??)

So clearly I had a very positive experience with housekeepers. But still I personally do not want one and here is why:

(This list refers to my personal experiences with CLs. Please don't feel this is a dig on the special woman in your life-I understand your relationship and I am not trying to challenge it.)

I am a SAHM. I am blessed to have more than enough time for housekeeping. (I use the term blessed loosely here.)

I clean better and faster. It takes the CL almost an hour to scrub down a bathroom and I find myself wondering "what is she DOING in there?")  I can do it more thoroughly in 15 minutes (thanks to the Magic Eraser).

I am too nice. It makes me uncomfortable to have another person doing my dirty-work and I overcompensate by offering the CL food and Starbucks runs every hour.

The mistakes. A cousin of mine had her silver candelabra de-shined with a vigorous scrub down with steel wool. Of course, I could keep an eye out but I don't want to babysit the CL.

The inconsistency. I had one woman for a few weeks after I broke my hand a couple winters ago, and just when I started to fall truly, madly, deeply in love with her, she told me she was pregnant and was going back to Peru to have her baby.  I have scheduled CLs for some big Shabbosim and spent the entire morning wondering if I used the wrong Spanish word for Saturday.

I am paranoid. Whenever something goes missing for even a minute, I worry maybe the CL 'borrowed' it. And I don't like feeling like that at all.

I would rather spend the money on something else. There is just so much extra stuff I desire, that I am motivated to get the work done myself so that I can feel guilt-free ordering yet another photo book. (One morning of cleaning or a gorgeous photo book that I will have forever? Easy choice there!)

I don't want it for my children. It's easy to fall into a habit of running out for a minute (and then 5 and then an hour), while the CL 'watches' the children. I believe in the good in people but the stories go on and on and on. Plus I want to teach them that Mommy works hard(ish) to keep the house clean and they should appreciate it by washing the floors themselves once in a while.

I have leverage. Seriously, if I had a CL what would I complain to my husband about?

Did I miss anything?

 I am not too proud to admit I make this house shine, both spiritually AND physically. And it doesn't have to be perfect either.

"It's no big deal if I can't find the keys to my car
Leaving dishes over night 'aint a crime.
If you think you'd do better
Well you got big shoes to fill
I'm a woman and I'm perfect by design."

Get it here.

Now if you'll excuse me. I have a Cholent pot to scour.

Have a great Sunday.

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Album Review And Giveaway!

So "Taking Over My Heart" is out and unless you have been living under a rock somewhere you must've heard about it, somewhere, somehow. If you haven't, check out my previous post (and the one before that, and the one before that... )

The feedback has been great. One of my music colleagues sent me her thoughts on the songs.

Her Home: 
This song is so stunning and every Jewish woman can relate.
You really got into their heads....pretty ah harmonies! The chorus is so powerful and catchy. Love the "that's the way”s. Nice line pockets from above. One of my faves.

Going to Israel: 
Hmmm, Are you in my diary? lol jk I want to go back to Israel! In the beginning "place to call mine" love how you sang mine. Really fun how song starts off slow and speeds up. Great chorus. I can feel myself getting on a plane when I listen to it. 

Little Pitchers: 
Check out that country sound! Totally fun and different. This song will definitely expand everyones music ear! Your voice sounds so lovely....Your great at that country style. Fabulous ukelele or banjo whatever instrument was used after chorus. Nice electric guitars too. 

Jewish Girls Are Beautiful: 
OMG I don't have words to express how much I love this song! First of all your and Esther's voices flow so gorgeously wow. Chorus is so moving and powerful. Every single jewish girl will feel more beautiful and see how much Hashem loves them by hearing this song. Melodies are great and so relatable. Every girl needs to hear this song. Girls focus way to much on their weight, looks etc so this song touches upon everything they need to hear. 

That fancy World: 
Pretty intro, the guitar and all. Where is she going btw? Great guitars in chorus as well and post chorus. Like the effects on one of the last choruses. Nice star theme throughout. 

May You Be Blessed: 
I definitely relate to the first verse a lot! And the chorus is out of this world, soooo moving, gives me chills, in a good way . Beautiful instrumentation. Nice hebrew addition too. Sweet ending. 

A Mother's Hope: 
Great guitar intro. Ah I bet every mom is going nuts over these stunning songs. You are in their heads! I dont have kids but this song still touches me and has such a nice message. I must say that this is my fave album right now! Second verse is sure to be a tearjerker to all the moms :) wedding part. I am so impressed with the music, vocals, melodies. It's really such a pro and quality sound. 

Look At Me Now: 
Liking that piano and beat. Are you playing the piano? Sweet drumroll before chorus and loove how you sing "good life" ! Gee I didnt know kids were so enjoyable. I guess I have what to look forward to. "Now I know it" at the end is also soo pretty.

 My calendar is filling up with concert bookings including the Ten Yad auction, Wizo's annual tea, and concerts in Boston, Florida, New Jersey, and Minneapolis to name a few. (Then there are the Bas Mitzvah parties! I love performing at all kinds of venues, but Bas Mitzvah parties are really my cup of tea.) So

This is how it goes:


Email me a picture you have taken with me at a concert.

Send me an email saying that you have shared my video "Taking Over My Heart" on your facebook page (with your facebook name of course)

Email me a picture holding any of my albums, with the words "I love Chanale's Music", written on the booklet (or cd).

3 winners will get an entire set of albums. 5 CDS.

My email is

The winner will be picked November 1st.